Monday, October 22, 2007

27 Free Games to Keep Your Kids Entertained on a Road Trip

While the idea of driving
hours with a car full of children may send shivers down the spine of even the
most patient of parents, a family road trip doesn’t have to be a stressful
endeavor. There are tons of games you can play with your children that will keep
the “are we there yets” at bay. Best of all, they
won’t cost you a thing. Here is a list of some road trip games and activities
you can play with your children.




  1. The Grocery Game: Whether you want to
    challenge your memory or just whet your appetite for lunch, the grocery
    game is a great way to pass the time on your drive. One person starts with
    naming something that can be bought at the grocery store that starts with
    the letter ‘A’, such as “apples”. The next player would have to repeat the
    first person’s answer as well as add on a food that begins with the letter
    ‘B’. If you mess up, you’re out, and the game continues until only one
    memory-gifted player remains. If you get bored with groceries, try using
    another topic.

  2. The Geography Game: Help your kids
    refresh their geography lessons while on the road with the geography game.
    The game begins with a person naming any place in the world, London for example.
    The next person then has to come up with a place name that begins with the
    last letter of the first location. So in this case, the next place would
    have to start with an ‘N’, like Nepal for instance. The game
    continues on until someone gets stumped, and no place can be used more
    than once. The game can be played with any topic, so give celebrity names,
    movies, animals or anything else you can think of a try.

  3. License Plate Bingo: To play this game
    you’ll need to bring along a few writing utensils and have paper to use
    for game cards. If you’d like, you can print out game cards ahead of time here.
    There are a few variations of this game, so you can either write down the
    names of states as your bingo squares or random letters and numbers. As
    players see the states or letters and numbers on passing license plates
    they cross them off. First player to get 5 in a row wins, and it might be
    a good idea to keep a few prizes on hand for the lucky winner.

  4. Card Games: Never underestimate
    the power of card games to keep your kids entertained. Bring along a set
    of cards from home and challenge kids to play their old favorites like old
    maid, go fish, and rummy. If you want to find new games, check out a book
    on card games at your local library or print out instructions for kids
    games here.

  5. Family Spelling Bee: See who is the best speller in the family by having an in-car
    spelling bee. Make sure words are appropriate for the age level of the kids
    in your car so no one gets discouraged. If spelling isn’t your thing,
    there are a number of other contests you can have as well. Try challenging
    your family to trivia or singing competitions as well.

  6. 20 Questions: An old favorite, 20
    questions is a great game for inquisitive little ones. The game begins
    with one person choosing pretty much anything they can think of. The first
    question for the guessers is usually “animal, vegetable, or mineral?”
    though it doesn’t have to be. Players then go through a litany of
    questions trying to determine the nature of the mystery object and answers
    must be yes or no. The winner is whomever guesses the object first or can stump the
    other players with their object.

  7. I Spy: Similar to 20
    Questions, I Spy is another classic travel game. One person in the car
    looks around and chooses an object. The guessers are given one clue: “I
    spy with my little eye something that is (insert first letter of objects
    name, objects color, or other clue of your choice)”. Players can’t choose something
    that is whizzing by too fast; objects must be within the car or far enough in the distance to be within sight for a few
    minutes. Guessers attempt to figure out the nature of the object and the
    winner gets to create their own mystery object.

  8. Team Storytelling: Inspire your family’s
    creative side by creating a group story. Someone begins by creating one
    line to a story (for example, “There once was a prince under a curse…”)
    and each person must add one line to the story as you go. If simple
    storytelling is too dull for you, spice it up by making the lines have to
    rhyme, or by pointing at players out of order to come up with a line on
    the spot. You can extend the game by writing down the story and having
    your children create illustrations for it.

  9. Word Play: Have your kids write
    down words they see as they’re traveling from billboards, bumper stickers,
    restaurants, etc. Once they get a certain amount, have them write a story,
    poem or song that includes all of the words they have found. When they’re
    done, have them read or sing their creation out loud for the rest of the
    family.

  10. Counting Cows: Rural countrysides can make for pretty dull window viewing,
    so make it more interesting by turning it into a game. Create a set
    distance within which players have to find as many cows on their side of
    the road as possible. If you have the misfortune of passing a cemetery on
    your side of the road, then you have to start over. If you’re not in cow
    country, try counting something else, like phone booths, mailboxes, or
    houses of a certain color.

  11. Rock, Paper, Scissors: This classic game
    makes it easy to keep kids occupied. Players put their hands behind their
    backs and pull one out to reveal either rock
    (closed fist), paper (flat hand) or scissors (first and middle fingers in
    a “v”). Scissors beats paper, paper beats rock and rock beats scissors.
    Kids can get creative and think up three other competing things (cowboy,
    ninja, and bear for instance).

  12. License Plate Lingo: You can use the
    license plates of the cars around you to provide entertainment for your
    kids. The goal of this game is to come up with a phrase using the letters
    on passing license plates. For example, if you see a plate with the
    letters “EIC,” your phrase could be “eat ice cream.”.
    You can make this game as silly or as serious as you’d like.

  13. Travel Scavenger Hunt: Keep children
    occupied with a travel scavenger hunt. Compile a list of objects for each
    child to find along the road. For example, you could have things like
    “brown cow” or “water tower”. Anything that comes to mind that you might
    be passing will work, or you can use prepared lists like this.
    You can also turn this game into a form of bingo with a game card like this. The winner is
    the first one to find everything on his or her list.

  14. The Banana Game: Single out yellow
    vehicles with the banana game. Players get points for each yellow car they
    point out passing. Double points are awarded for buses and larger yellow
    vehicles. Be prepared, this could get competitive!

  15. String Figures: You wouldn’t think a
    simple piece of string could keep a kid entertained for hours, but in some
    cases it can. Pack a piece of string or yarn tied into a
    circle for your child and challenge
    them to learn to make string
    shapes like Jacob’s Ladder, Kitty Whiskers or to play Cat’s Cradle. If you
    don’t know much about string games, you can check out a book from the
    library or print out some instructions from a string game website.

  16. Fortune Teller: Keep your kids
    giggling with a fortune teller. Fold up your own using these instructions
    or use a preprinted version. Once folded, you can write colors and numbers
    and various fortunes on the flaps or turn them into cute animal puppets.

  17. Find the Vehicle: Challenge your kids
    to find a list of different types and models of cars. Children interested
    in cars will find this game particularly enjoyable. You can make it more
    challenging by specifying a color for more common models of cars or types
    of cargo for semis.

  18. Slug Bug: While the name
    implies a certain amount of violence, it can also be played much more
    peacefully. Have your kids count on their fingers or gently tap their
    seatmate every time they spot a Volkswagen Bug. The specifics of the rules
    are up to you, but you can make old bugs worth more than new, or certain colors worth more than others.

  19. Map Monitors: One easy way to keep
    children entertained on the road is to engage them in the process of
    travel. Give each child a map of your trip and allow them to keep track of
    your progress using stickers, coloring or something else your child
    enjoys.

  20. Mad Libs: Mad Libs are a fun and silly way to keep your reading-age
    kids entertained on a long trip. You can make up your own or use free
    versions
    from the Web. Give your kids the worksheets, have them come up with nouns, verbs and adjectives to fill
    them in, and then have them read their new stories aloud to one another.

  21. Road Trip Math: Have a budding math
    lover in your car? Entertain them by having them figure out math problems
    based on your travel. For instance if you pass a sign telling you the next
    rest stop is 20 miles away, have your child figure out how long it will
    take you to get there based on your current speed. It might not sound like
    the most fun, but it will keep your child engaged and learning. Rewards
    for work well done won’t hurt either.

  22. Fortunately-Unfortunately: Help your children
    learn to think positively with the game Fortunately-Unfortunately. One
    player begins with an unfortunate statement like, “Unfortunately, there is
    a bat in the car.” The next player has to counter with something more
    fortunate like, “Fortunately, I brought along bat repellant.” Players
    continue to alternate between unfortunate and fortunate things until
    you’ve exhausted a particular topic.

  23. Treasure Bottle: You’ll need a little
    preparation ahead of time, but a treasure bottle can be a great way to
    keep younger children entertained and engaged. Use a 2 liter bottle or
    large plastic container with a lid. Fill it 2/3s full with rice or
    birdseed, then add small “treasures” from around your house like paper
    clips, bolts, pennies, Legos and any other small
    things you might have lying around in your junk drawer. Keep count of how
    many items you put in and write the number on the outside of the bottle.
    Have kids roll around the bottle until they find everything hidden inside.
    Just make sure the lid is extra secure so there aren’t any mid-trip messes
    to clean up.

  24. Who Am I?: Keep your kids
    guessing with this easy and fun game. Think of someone you and your
    children know: a family member, neighbor, or friend, and give clues to the
    person’s identity like their hair color, sex, or whether or not they wear
    glasses. Let each person guess and if no one gets it, continue giving
    clues until your kids figure it out.

  25. Find 100: Occupy your kids with
    counting using Find 100. Choose a color or object and keep counting until
    you reach 100. Try counting flags, statues, churches, red cars or anything
    else you can think of. Mix it up by giving each player a different object
    to find 100 of and race to see who can finish first.

  26. Official Count: Change up the usual
    counting games by taking an official count. Pick out objects to keep a
    tally of like motorcycles or vans. Keep a tally of what you see, including
    the color. At the start of the trip, have your kids make their own
    predictions about what they think will be the most popular colors or
    styles of these kinds of vehicles and compare the predictions to the
    results at the end of your trip.

  27. That’s My Car!: Compete with your
    fellow passengers to see who can get the sweetest ride. Have each kid
    choose a car from the next 5 that you pass or that pass by you to be his
    or her “own” car. All players mutually decide who has the best car of
    those that are “owned” and that person is the winner.



With a little creativity
and planning, you can keep your kids entertained mile after mile and keep your
sanity intact. Try out a few of these suggestions on your next trip and you’ll
create both on-the-road entertainment and memories to last a lifetime.








Saturday, October 6, 2007

How to answer 23 of the most common interview questions

Let’s face it; no one likes the interview process. Well, certainly not the people being interviewed anyway. You have to be on your best behavior, you only get one chance to get it right, and it’s like taking your driving test all over again. Over the years I’ve been to countless interviews. To get my first job out of college I attended some 15-20 interviews a week. Whether it was in Britain or over here in the States, the questions never really seemed to change from job to job. Not only that, but the answers to them are usually the same, with your own personal interpretation of course. Here I present 23 questions you’re likely to be asked, and how I have learned to answer them. Why 23? Because I had more than 20 and less than 25. Remember, being interviewed is a skill, and if you do the preparation you should ace it every time.

1. So, tell me a little about yourself.
I’d be very surprised if you haven’t been asked this one at every interview. It’s probably the most asked question because it sets the stage for the interview and it gets you talking. Be careful not to give the interviewer your life story here. You don’t need to explain everything from birth to present day. Relevant facts about education, your career and your current life situation are fine.

2. Why are you looking (or why did you leave you last job)?
This should be a straightforward question to answer, but it can trip you up. Presumably you are looking for a new job (or any job) because you want to advance your career and get a position that allows you to grow as a person and an employee. It’s not a good idea to mention money here, it can make you sound mercenary. And if you are in the unfortunate situation of having been downsized, stay positive and be as brief as possible about it. If you were fired, you’ll need a good explanation. But once again, stay positive.

3. Tell me what you know about this company.
Do your homework before you go to any interview. Whether it’s being the VP of marketing or the mailroom clerk, you should know about the company or business you’re going to work for. Has this company been in the news lately? Who are the people in the company you should know about? Do the background work, it will make you stand out as someone who comes prepared, and is genuinely interested in the company and the job.

4. Why do you want to work at X Company?
This should be directly related to the last question. Any research you’ve done on the company should have led you to the conclusion that you’d want to work there. After all, you’re at the interview, right? Put some thought into this answer before you have your interview, mention your career goals and highlight forward-thinking goals and career plans.

5. What relevant experience do you have?
Hopefully if you’re applying for this position you have bags of related experience, and if that’s the case you should mention it all. But if you’re switching careers or trying something a little different, your experience may initially not look like it’s matching up. That’s when you need a little honest creativity to match the experiences required with the ones you have. People skills are people skills after all, you just need to show how customer service skills can apply to internal management positions, and so on.

6. If your previous co-workers were here, what would they say about you?
Ok, this is not the time for full disclosure. If some people from your past are going to say you’re a boring A-hole, you don’t need to bring that up. Stay positive, always, and maybe have a few specific quotes in mind. “They’d say I was a hard worker” or even better “John Doe has always said I was the most reliable, creative problem-solver he’d ever met.”

7. Have you done anything to further your experience?
This could include anything from night classes to hobbies and sports. If it’s related, it’s worth mentioning. Obviously anything to do with further education is great, but maybe you’re spending time on a home improvement project to work on skills such as self-sufficiency, time management and motivation.

8. Where else have you applied?
This is a good way to hint that you’re in demand, without sounding like you’re whoring yourself all over town. So, be honest and mention a few other companies but don’t go into detail. The fact that you’re seriously looking and keeping your options open is what the interviewer is driving at.

9. How are you when you’re working under pressure?
Once again, there are a few ways to answer this but they should all be positive. You may work well under pressure, you may thrive under pressure, and you may actually PREFER working under pressure. If you say you crumble like aged blue cheese, this is not going to help you get your foot in the door.

10. What motivates you to do a good job?
The answer to this one is not money, even if it is. You should be motivated by life’s noble pursuits. You want recognition for a job well done. You want to become better at your job. You want to help others or be a leader in your field.

11. What’s your greatest strength?
This is your chance to shine. You’re being asked to explain why you are a great employee, so don’t hold back and stay do stay positive. You could be someone who thrives under pressure, a great motivator, an amazing problem solver or someone with extraordinary attention to detail. If your greatest strength, however, is to drink anyone under the table or get a top score on Mario Kart, keep it to yourself. The interviewer is looking for work-related strengths.

12. What’s your biggest weakness?
If you’re completely honest, you may be kicking yourself in the butt. If you say you don’t have one, you’re obviously lying. This is a horrible question and one that politicians have become masters at answering. They say things like “I’m perhaps too committed to my work and don’t spend enough time with my family.” Oh, there’s a fireable offense. I’ve even heard “I think I’m too good at my job, it can often make people jealous.” Please, let’s keep our feet on the ground. If you’re asked this question, give a small, work-related flaw that you’re working hard to improve. Example: “I’ve been told I occasionally focus on details and miss the bigger picture, so I’ve been spending time laying out the complete project every day to see my overall progress.”

13. Let’s talk about salary. What are you looking for?
Run for cover! This is one tricky game to play in an interview. Even if you know the salary range for the job, if you answer first you’re already showing all your cards. You want as much as possible, the employer wants you for as little as you’re willing to take. Before you apply, take a look at salary.com for a good idea of what someone with your specific experience should be paid. You may want to say, “well, that’s something I’ve thought long and hard about and I think someone with my experience should get between X & Y.” Or, you could be sly and say, “right now, I’m more interested in talking more about what the position can offer my career.” That could at least buy you a little time to scope out the situation. But if you do have a specific figure in mind and you are confident that you can get it, I’d say go for it. I have on many occasions, and every time I got very close to that figure (both below and sometimes above).

14. Are you good at working in a team?
Unless you have the I.Q. of a houseplant, you’ll always answer YES to this one. It’s the only answer. How can anyone function inside an organization if they are a loner? You may want to mention what part you like to play in a team though; it’s a great chance to explain that you’re a natural leader.

15. Tell me a suggestion you have made that was implemented.
It’s important here to focus on the word “implemented.” There’s nothing wrong with having a thousand great ideas, but if the only place they live is on your notepad what’s the point? Better still, you need a good ending. If your previous company took your advice and ended up going bankrupt, that’s not such a great example either. Be prepared with a story about an idea of yours that was taken from idea to implementation, and considered successful.

16. Has anything ever irritated you about people you've worked with?
Of course, you have a list as long as your arm. But you can’t say that, it shows you as being negative and difficult to work with. The best way to answer this one is to think for a while and then say something like “I’ve always got on just fine with my co-workers actually.”

17. Is there anyone you just could not work with?
No. Well, unless you’re talking about murderers, racists, rapists, thieves or other dastardly characters, you can work with anyone. Otherwise you could be flagged as someone who’s picky and difficult if you say, “I can’t work with anyone who’s a Bronco’s fan. Sorry.”

18. Tell me about any issues you’ve had with a previous boss.
Arrgh! If you fall for this one you shouldn’t be hired anyway. The interviewer is testing you to see if you’ll speak badly about your previous supervisor. Simply answer this question with exteme tact, diplomacy and if necessary, a big fat loss of memory. In short, you've never had any issues.

19. Would you rather work for money or job satisfaction?
It’s not a very fair question is it? We’d all love to get paid a Trump-like salary doing a job we love but that’s rare indeed. It’s fine to say money is important, but remember that NOTHING is more important to you than the job. Otherwise, you’re just someone looking for a bigger paycheck.

20. Would you rather be liked or feared?
I have been asked this a lot, in various incarnations. The first time I just drew a blank and said, “I don’t know.” That went over badly, but it was right at the start of my career when I had little to no experience. Since then I’ve realized that my genuine answer is “Neither, I’d rather be respected.” You don’t want to be feared because fear is no way to motivate a team. You may got the job done but at what cost? Similarly, if you’re everyone’s best friend you’ll find it difficult to make tough decisions or hit deadlines. But when you’re respected, you don’t have to be a complete bastard or a lame duck to get the job done.

21. Are you willing to put the interests of X Company ahead of your own?
Again, another nasty question. If you say yes, you’re a corporate whore who doesn’t care about family. If you say no, you’re disloyal to the company. I’m afraid that you’ll probably have to say yes to this one though, because you’re trying to be the perfect employee at this point, and perfect employees don’t cut out early for Jimmy’s baseball game.

22. So, explain why I should hire you.
As I’m sure you know, “because I’m great” or “I really need a job” are not good answers here. This is a time to give the employer a laundry list of your greatest talents that just so happen to match the job description. It’s also good to avoid taking potshots at other potential candidates here. Focus on yourself and your talents, not other people’s flaws.

23. Finally, do you have any questions to ask me?
I’ll finish the way I started, with one of the most common questions asked in interviews. This directly relates to the research you’ve done on the company and also gives you a chance to show how eager and prepared you are. You’ll probably want to ask about benefits if they haven’t been covered already. A good generic one is “how soon could I start, if I were offered the job of course.” You may also ask what you’d be working on. Specifically, in the role you’re applying for and how that affects the rest of the company. Always have questions ready, greeting this one with a blank stare is a rotten way to finish your interview. Good luck and happy job hunting.




Friday, October 5, 2007

Singapore Buddhist Free Clinic

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