Sunday, September 23, 2007

Feng shui for romance

Sitting In The Office:

In the office, always sit with the wall behind you if you seek co-operation and support of colleagues. Sitting with your back to people or a door can signify 'backstabbing', betrayal and lack of support. It is always the best that if a male and a female colleague sit opposite facing one-another. This is always seemed a balance in the "yin" and "yang" energy. Less conflict will occur often.

It is not advised to sit facing opposite with a female colleague who is 6 years older or younger than you. Conflicts and arguments will occur frequently.

Love in an Office:

It is always not advised to fall in love with someone who is working or sitting in the same office. Chances of development to deeper relationships are rare. This is due to the fire element in feng shui in an office. However, unless the male colleague is sitting right in front of the female colleague where the female colleague is sitting at the back facing the wall. If you like a male/female colleague who is sitting right in front of you (opposite face-to-face), a chance of success is rare.

Feng Shui For Romance

This is specially Tips & Hints For those who are busy searching for a life-partner.

Never place your own single photo in your bedroom. Most singles likes to do it. It is always advise to remove it as soon as possible if you are at the age of marriage. This seriously causes "sha" qi in your romance life. You stay and sleep in your bedroom every night and the "sha" qi to your romance became an object. This causes a loneliness and tiredness in your romance. You always feel either unsafe or afraid of getting to start a relationship.

Never hang your own photo above your bed on the wall. You will never have the good feeling over any opposite sex. Hence, you will never have a good relationship. If you like to place a photo, you can choose to place a group photo, family photo or a photo taken with friends or siblings. You will soon have a chance to change it to a photo taken with your lover or husband.

Never put on a red colour bed sheet. (refer to those only red colours without any floral designs or pictures) This usually works well with couples and creates more romance between the two of them. However, this reduces your chances for an opposite sex to fall in love with you. Or worst, they dislike you.

For those who are very eager to find a life-partner, it is always advised not to place any ornaments that is odd in number (eg.1) It would be encourage to place them in a pair.

Never ever place fish tank in a bedroom. It is not advise to do that.

Never sleep in front of a mirror. It reflects your image. This will lead to an unsuccessful relationship where your partner may change his/her heart easily.

Never place any sharp objects on the writing table or anywhere in your bedroom when sleeping. It is advised to keep them in your drawer. When you are sleeping, your "yang" qi is lower; the sharp objects will damage or lower your "Yang" qi the next day. Hence you will always look restless even you have an 8 hours sleep. You properly do not have the mood or energy to woo at girls. For the ladies, you properly lose your mood to pay more attention at the guy that you admire. Soon, you will lose the motivation of starting to get to know him/her more.

For those working, it is advise to take a bath on every morning before you go to work. You will look fresh and most of your "yin" qi will be washed away by the water element. Hence, you feel much more happier, neat and confidence with yourself when wooing at the opposite sex. You will attract more attention from the opposite sex. This also base on those people going out for a first date. You will have a higher chance of getting more chances to get more attention from a lady/man. So take that in mind, Bath yourself well.

Never place slippers in front of your bedroom door. Kick them aside. It blocks your way to your success in your relationship.

For the gentleman: It is advice not to paste any sex related material like sex related posters etc. in your bedroom. You will properly lose your "yang" energy if you face these materials too much. The more "yang" energy you have, the more you can attract opposite sex. For man, it is very important to have the "yang" qi with you.

In Feng Shui and Astrology, than stronger the man has his "yang" qi, and the stronger the lady has her "yin" energy, the "yin yang" gathers and balances the romance life.

In Feng Shui, colour is also an important aspect in romance related topics. For instance, green colour is always not advice to paint on the wall of your bedroom. You will never succeed to make a man/lady love you no matter how hard you tried. Or rather I say, you better give up on him/her. Paint your bedroom wall with light and bright colours. Light sky blue colours will create a peaceful and stable relationship. Light pink or violet colour will create a romantic and loving relationship. Pale off white colour will create a fresh and successful relationship. Never paint red colour in your room unless you are getting married. It ends your chances to find a suitable life-partner.

There are always things not advise to place in a bedroom. However if you follow to my tips above, you properly will have a better relationship sooner. Feng Shui starts with the feeling. If you feel very comfortable to place something in your room, then it's okay. If you got a feeling of uneasy, frustration, confused or worried, you properly got an objective. It's always strongly advise to check out more with your local Feng Shui adviser.

Last, it is also worth to clean your wardrobe often. Throw away unwanted clothes, shoes or towels often. Clear at least 3 to 4 times a year. It somehow means that you will only have a brand new relationship only if you can throw away the old/bad or unsuccessful one. Don't just leave everything in your wardrobe for thousand years and just don't bother of clearing up your wardrobe. You properly end up tones of rubbish inside. You might as well choose to remain alone forever in your life. Your heart is filled with too much objectives that bothers you. That's properly the reason why you always feel bothered or frustrated or even get jealous easily whenever you heard the news that another of your good buddies is getting married soon. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? CLEAN UP AND TIDY UP YOUR WARDROBE TODAY! FIGHT FOR YOUR OWN HAPPINESS NOW!

Saturday, September 1, 2007

50 Practical Home Office Feng Shui Tips

If you’re lucky enough to work from home, you’re probably the envy of everyone in the working world. Sleeping in, foregoing any sort of dress code, and being able to run your errands in the middle of the day are just a few of the perks of being able to earn your paycheck in the comfort of your very own home. On the down side, maintaining an organized work space in the middle of your home can be frustrating, as bill paying, laundry, and other household chores can find themselves in the middle of your office files. Below are 50 simple ways you can maintain a happy, clean, and organized office area at home by practicing the fundamentals of Feng Shui. By including the key elements fire, water, earth, and wood, you’ll have a work space that maximizes your productivity and energy while nurturing a calm, soothing balance.

Furniture

  1. Don’t obstruct the doorway. Keep shoes, umbrellas, books, and other items put away. Keeping the entrance way clear will allow positive energy, or chi, to flow freely in and out of the room, uncontrained. You will be able to improve your mood as soon as you enter the room since your eyes won’timmediately jump to the clutter and disorganization and you won’t be tripping over mismatched shoes and the raincoat from last month.
  2. Rearrange furniture frequently. You don’t have to totally redo the setup of the whole room, but shifting your furniture frequently will maintain a healthy level of energy. You will subconsciously notice the changes, keeping you alert and on you toes. Try moving the desk a few inches closer to the window or switching the placement of two chairs. It may not seem like a big change aesthetically, but you’ll be able to feel the results instantly.
  3. Move the TV to another room. Keeping the television in your home office will be a constant distraction. You can find all the news, stocktrading information, and other work-related updates you need on the Internet anyway. Move the TV out of your office and leave room for healthier, more natural workspace.
  4. Don’t lose sight of the door. Make sure all of your chairs and sofas are situated so that anyone sitting in your office will always be able to see the door. Having a way out and keeping track of who or what comes in is a traditional measure of good Feng Shui.
  5. Leave at least 3 feet between furniture. A standard Feng Shui tip for arranging your furniture is to leave at least 3 feet between all the pieces in the room. For instance, leave 3 feet between your desk and the computer chair when unoccupied. Allow 3 feet between your 2 lounge chairs or between a chair and sofa
  6. Make sure your furniture represents the elements. You obviously won’t be able to have a desk made of fire, but try to incorporate the wood and metal elements into your furniture constitutions as much as possible. Most of your furniture will undoubtedly be made of wood, but see if you can find an end table made of aluminum or one that features a metallic finish.
  7. Add pillows and blankets. Buy a couple of throw pillows and a comfy blanket to give your office a cozy appeal. Let them lie easily on your chairs or couch, but only indulge in wrapping yourself up in the blanket if it’s really chilly. You want to promote an easygoing atmosphere, but you don’t want to fall asleep at your desk!
  8. Don’t overcrowd the room. Putting too much furniture or accessories in your office will lead to overcrowding. Overcrowding leads to a tense, nervous energy. Keep the amount of items in the room to a minimum, including only the furniture and electronics you need to conduct your business and host clients in a basic, but comfortable, way.
  9. Give yourself a choice of places to sit. If you limit yourself to the one desk chair you use while on the computer, you’ll end up feeling cramped and panicky. Have at least one other sofa or chair for you to sit in while taking a break from the computer once in a while. Changing your physical placement will keep you focused longer.
  10. Be comfortable.

Make sure all the furniture in the room is comfortable to you. Since it’s your office, you will be the one spending most (if not all) of your time there. Being comfortable will keep your mind off your external circumstances and allow you to work.

Light and Color

  1. Windows When selecting a room for your home office, you should pick the one that has at least one window. Enveloping yourself in natural light helps keep you on track with the progression of day and night, keeping you in sync with the environment around you. Make sure the window has blinds or curtains, though, in case the sun is too bright or causes an irritating glare on your desk.
  2. Lamps Putting lamps on your desk or end tables will allow you to control the amount of light you receive more pointedly. If the overhead light is too harsh for example turning it off and relying on lamps and the natural light from the window will keep you more relaxed and your eyes less strained. If the main light isn’t bright enough however, a lamp will help you see better and concentrate on your work, as your eyes will naturally be drawn to where the light is focused.
  3. Light bulbs Choosing the right light bulbs for your home office is extremely important. You will want bulbs that radiate feelings of warmth. Avoid buying fluorescent lights altogether.
  4. Blue Incorporating the color blue into your home office helps include an association with the element “water.” Blue is a soothing color and is best used in the East and Southeast areas of the room. Painting the ceiling blue is a great way to not only add color to your office, but to improve productivity and promote good energy.
  5. Green “is considered to be a color of freshness, growth, and peace,” so try adding cushions or pillows in light, subtle shades to give your office soothing energy with a punch of personality.
  6. Red Bold reds are thought to introduce feelings wealth and happiness into a person’s life. Supplementing your otherwise subdued room with red accents will brighten your mood and perhaps even bring you luck. Don’t go overboard with strong reds or you may end up creating a negative energy infused with anger and agitation.
  7. Metal Metallic accents will brighten up your room in a subtle way. Use a bronze paperweight or hang copper windchimes near the window to represent key Feng Shui element while allowing natural light to reflect off the metallic surfaces.
  8. Earth tones Earth tones are known to be soothing shades of yellow, brown, and green. They generally make people feel comfortable and at ease because of their relationship to nature, so stick to these shades when designing your home office. A deep yellow rug or tan curtains will create a simplified atmosphere perfect for work.
  9. Balance As with any Feng Shui practices, you must maintain a balance of color in your room. Adding too much blue and not enough red will leave your office vulnerable to the water element, for example. Keeping the elements in check through color is a fun, inspiring approach to Feng Shui interior design because of the choices you have to accessorize each area.
  10. Mirrors Mirrors help positive energy dart about the room by letting in more light and allowing you to keep your eye on what normally wouldn’t be seen. Hang a mirror over your computer to watch the wall behind you and open up the space around you. Mirrors maximize your space by making rooms appear much larger than they actually are, making the office feel roomy and uncramped.

Decorations and Plants

  1. Put up family photos To make your home office more inviting, hang up or display photos of you with family and friends. You’ll make yourself more comfortable by seeing familiar faces and recalling fun memories. Use a variety both wood and metal frames to incorporate the two elements.
  2. Paintings Paintings are also positive additions to your home office. Choose ones that feature garden scenes, landscapes, and other natural designs to invite earth tones and keep you in touch with the environment.
  3. Crystals Certain crystals like quartz, amethyst, and malachite increase the power of Feng Shui.
  4. Flowers Introducing plant life into your home office will boost your spirits and help balance out the elements. Plants, even flowers, represent wood. Put a potted plant on the windowsill or situate a larger fern or hibiscus plant in a corner to brighten up the room.
  5. Bamboo Bamboo also represents the element wood and is considered to be extremely lucky. Read Diane Kern’s ideas for selecting and maintaining bamboo to ensure that the plant brings you the best luck possible.
  6. Fountain Having a small water fountain in your home office is good for many reasons. The sound of the running water will soothe your senses, the water element will be fully represented, and the fountain will “attract and trap the chi.”
  7. Caring for a plant. Having a plant in your home office will do no good if you can’t keep it alive. Dying or dead plants will increase the amount of negative energy, making you feel depressed and frustrated.
  8. Place wall decorations at eye level. Hanging up pictures any old way is a direct infringement of Feng Shui practice. Let all your wall decorations hang at eye level, creating a consistent, organized aesthetic.
  9. Avoid sharp-cornered objects. Sharp-cornered objects are not only potentially harmful, they are also believed to obstruct the pathway of chi. Your desk will most likely have sharp corners, but as long as you are not sitting where they point directly at you, the chi will still be able to flow around you easily.
  10. If it doesn’t have a function, you don’t need it. If your end table doesn’t hold up a lamp or represent any of the key elements, you probably don’t need it. Get rid of any decor that doesn’t serve some sort of Feng Shui function by balancing out the elements, and you’ll free up space and feel better about everything that does belong.

Sound and Scent

  1. Music Play soothing music throughout the day to alleviate stress, calm nerves, and keep you relaxed. Try a Norah Jones CD or listen to something purely instrumental so you won’t get caught up in the lyrics.
  2. Eliminate distractions. Close the door if others are at home with you so that you don’t have to listen to distracting noises. Eliminating unnatural, exterior noise will keep you focused on your work and will allow the chi to move around your room with minimal disruptions.
  3. Evaluate your reactions to certain noises. Does the sound of birds chirping keep you relaxed? Does the rumbling dishwasher make you stressed? Evaluate your reactions to everyday noises and then try to accommodate accordingly. Crack the window a little to let in natural noises and drown out that dishwasher. Or, turn up your music to keep out the bothersome weed eater outside.
  4. Pick a room located far away from loud noises. When selecting the perfect room for your home office, pick one that is located far away from loud, distracting noises. For example, if your neighbors are always out on their front lawn playing or visiting, go to a room that’s located at the back of your house. If the neighbor on your left has a dog that barks all day long, choose a room on the other side of the house. Eliminating as much extra noise as possible will help you concentrate.
  5. Candles Light candles to welcome scent and give your office a relaxed atmosphere. The warm flame is a soft, natural representation of fire that also helps you feel cozy.
  6. Incense Lighting incense is another way to bring scent into the room. Many incense smells are believed to promote healthy chi.
  7. Garbage Take out the garbage often to get rid of bad smells that will interrupt your room’s chi. Mildew, garbage, and other noisome scents will also distract you until they are eliminated. Empty out your trash several times each week to keep bad smells from developing in the first place.
  8. Citrus Citrusy scents like tangerine and mandarin increase the amount of energy in the room, keeping you awake and alert even after hours of work.
  9. Geranium and Lavender These soothing scents will calm nerves and help you keep things in perspective.
  10. Burning oil Burning tiny amounts of oil will cause your room to smell better in seconds. Try out one of these oil burners from The Body Shop to improve your room’s fragrance.

Eliminate Clutter

  1. Don’t use your workspace for any other chores. Clutter will immediately destroy any good energy that was present in your home office before. To help eliminate mess, don’t use your workspace for any other purpose other than business. Don’t fold laundry, pay bills, or let your kids play on the computer in the room that you’ve specially designed for work.
  2. Organize your desk.Invest in a collection of wire baskets that stack on the top of your desk to eliminate floating papers and general clutter. Office Depot carries a large stock of desk accessories that will minimize the amount of roaming items and keep you from losing important items. Clean up the inside of your desk by sliding in dividers or small containers that will hold paperclips, rubberbands, and extra staples.
  3. File papers. It might seem old-fashioned, but every office needs a filing system. Buy a simple filing cabinet and start filling it up. To make sure you can find your papers easily, make a folder for almost everything. Divide topics into subtopics, and divide those further. It might take a little extra work in the beginning, but when you’re trying to find a specific document, you’ll be glad you did. Choose multicolored folders and use separate colors for different projects, clients, or months.
  4. Clean up before ending each workday. As a part of your daily routine, straighten up your desk and office before leaving each day. This practice will help keep you organized and ready for the following day, and when you begin work in the morning, you won’t be walking into a messy room. Instead of seeing stacks of papers and clutter, your eyes will settle on the calm organization you’ve worked so hard to preserve.
  5. Hide unruly cords and cables. Even though you’ve taken the TV out of your office, your computer and radio and/or CD player have lots of messy cords ruining your simplistic mood. Having to look at a tangle of wires will stress you out and distract you from your work. Use a surge protector to safely plug in all those wires to your wall, and use hefty twist ties to prevent tangling. Try investing in a cable kit, like this one from cable-safe.com.
  6. Bring in as little food as possible. Being able to work from home means that you can eat in the kitchen. Try not to bring food into your office, as it will only add to the clutter and garbage. If you do decide to have a snack, make sure you clean it up as soon as possible.
  7. Hide your magazines and manuals. Old magazines, guidebooks, and manuals can stack up quickly, leaving your home office looking more like a dusty library than a Feng Shui refuge. If you’re not ready to throw everything out, hide items in a basket underneath a side table or stash them inside hollowed out ottomans. You’ll never know there’s a messy collection of Reader’s Digest underneath you feet!
  8. Buy a bookshelf. Use a bookshelf for books and manuals that you refer to frequently. Put taller items at the end of each shelf and shorter ones in the middle. This organization idea will make your books look better and stand straighter.
  9. Separate your mail. Sort your mail as soon as you come from the mailbox, and separate your personal items from business-related envelopes and packages. Take with you to your office the mail that is for work only, and keep it in a basket or on a shelf designated for mail. Each week, file or throw away old bills and envelopes to keep the stack small.
  10. Make to-do lists to keep your mind clutter-free. Breathe deeply. Don’t get overwhelmed, you’ll be able to finish it all. To avoid panic attacks at work, make yourself several “to do” lists throughout the day. Whether they’re involved outlines on the computer or a simple note dashed on a post it, keeping track of what you need to accomplish will ease your mind and keep you organized. Re-prioritize after lunch, and make a new list for the afternoon or following morning.

Following the practices of Feng Shui will help organize the movement and energy in your home office, essentially increasing your productivity and improving your mood. By balancing out the elements of fire, water, wood, and earth as you arrange furniture, maximize the benefits and focus of light and color, decorate in an organized manner, realize the potential of sound and scent, and eliminate clutter, your home office will not only be a productive environment for work, it will also be your own personal refuge.